Put those pills down you don’t want to die
Everything you believe now is a lie
Those days of crying in the bathroom because you had to eat alone
Or sadness because he didn’t call your phone
Won’t matter 15 years from now I promise
There will be a lot of pain you will go through
Your heart will hurt so bad you won’t now what to do
You’ll drink your sorrows away
Waiting just waiting for the day
That everything will change
All the pain you have endured over the years will make you stronger and make you the best mom you can be
And finally you’ll feel complete
So put the razor away
You’ll have enough scars that won’t fade
But you will be grateful for the scars on your heart
Because in the end it’ll make you strong enough to give you and your daughter a fresh start
To give her a life that you never had
So trust me everything your feeling now won’t feel so bad
Because you’ll give life to the light you always needed
Dear teenage me,
I won’t tell you that everything will be handed to you.
I know life is exceptionally hard right now.
In the near future, it is going to get a lot worse.
I am telling you no matter how much you want to give up.
No matter how much your mind fights you and says you cannot go on.
Do not listen!
For every struggle, you are about to endure.
Every heartbreak, life lesson, and loss that you go through.
There is light at the end of that very dark tunnel.
You’ll have lots of surprises along the way.
You will suffer in unimaginable ways. Ways you’ll never speak of to another person.
Continue to love as hard as you do.
Some people you come across are going to be a better person because of you.
Fight for what you want as hard in the future as you do now.
It is okay to daily at life sometimes.
Just don’t let it get the best of you.
I promise life will finally give you what you’ve always needed.
You’ll get the acceptance, love, and compassion you’ve always craved.
Life is going to throw anything and everything at you.
It will all be worth it in the end I promise.
A gift of listening –
Listening to my own laughter,
To the mere friend I locked away deep within,
But searched for afar –
Just to be lost,
Not knowing the the touch of my own heart,
And keeping it less burdened with shame,
Of being the voice of so many others yet I now don’t recognize their name,
I hid and did love the attention that stomped my hearts bid,
As blind was I –
When the star lit trailed nigh,
To hit the bump of life not recognizing why,
Should I have listened?
Should I have loved me more?
The answers to those I write to tell –
NOW has enlightened you to soar,
It has brought acceptance of your kind-bold beautiful eyes,
To smile at your cheeks –
And not gaze them in questions of pivoting scolding delusions,
That the one person I needed most created,
Oh, my dear! You’ve learnt and accomplished more through recreating and releasing all those lost voices,
And started owning that melodic chirping,
That no longer had to have a trend –
But ruled through knowing it’s own tune,
You’ve come to this world – where you think more of keeping your trust,
Because you lessened the greatest fear –
That was almost TOO near,
In fact you slinged it –
With your knack for always searching yourself for facts,
I now know and respect you more for all callous and careless acts,
As now you have YOU –
Simple but remarkable that YOU are here –
Now gliding through YOU your greatest wealth.
As a preteen, all you see is a blue horizon.
The cross you wear does not betray you—yet.
Your friends see only a blue horizon.
Their cross will not betray them.
As an adolescent, you see a pink and blue horizon.
The cross you wear weighs you down.
Your friends oppose your horizon.
Their cross will not betray them.
As a young adult, you see a pink horizon with a sliver of blue.
The cross you once wore, has fallen to the floor.
Your old friends have left.
Their cross will not betray them.
Your new friends see a full spectrum horizon.
Their flag is welcoming.
As a new mom, your horizon is pink.
The flag embraces you with open arms.
Your friends see a full spectrum horizon.
Their flag does not weigh them down.
As a second-time mom, your horizon remains pink.
Your flag lifts you up.
Your friends see a full spectrum horizon and then some.
The flag flies high.
You and your wife see a pink horizon.
Your flag symbolizes strength and acceptance.
Your friends see a full spectrum horizon.
Your flag waves with pride.
Call it what you want but I’m being straightforward,
I’m trying my hardest to focus on myself but there is always that part of me that has to vent my good vibes of love even though too much of a good thing can easily go bad.
Some can call it selfish I don’t care anymore,
I’m looking for someone I can always feel comfortable and proud showering with care and inviting to places and events two friends can’t just go to.
I’m not saying it ever has to be more than a beautiful friendship, neither am I saying we can’t have other friends or interests.
I’m saying that I prefer to work on myself and have that one person to escape with whom I can rely on to be considerate and honest with me.
Well aware of circumstances I wouldn’t have to be more than a friend emotionally I would only suffer in moments of weakness where I confuse what I want with how I think I feel.
In my best headspace, I know that I will forever crave bonding on a personal level with this one person we focus on only each other in that sense. I know the reality that life happens things and people change and so do the things we want and how we feel.
But all of that is just an attempt to be safe and cautious about the passion that burns within my soul.
At heart I want to ignite a connection with someone that will change our lives forever I want to fail and lose in front of someone who won’t see it as weak until I win but see it as the strength in my character to keep walking in the rain until I reach the other side of the storm.
Truthfully I don’t know who I’m wishing for or when I will find them but I’m at a place where I know how much having someone right there in that place will mean to me I know that I’ve so far with people who weren’t capable of holding up and sometimes nobody there at all.
I’ve messed up good things before,
I’ve fumbled many bags,
I’ve sold many wins,
I still haven’t quit,
This is more than sexual desire,
This is more than craving intimacy,
This is more than needing a partner,
This is more than trying to fill voids,
This is more than a me thing,
I’m not sure what this feeling is but I know for a fact that I will never stop feeling this until that one is found.
All I’m saying is,
For now, let’s dance,
For now, let’s Sing,
For now, Let’s Party,
For now, let’s dress up and go out,
For now, Let’s Eat,
For now, let’s just enjoy the moments in life we might miss focusing too far down the road,
For now, let’s just be right here where we are and go from there,
Forget what all these success gurus and mentors are saying and whatever all these successful and famous people said they did before they got to where they are.
We have our own stories to write let’s not plagiarize anyone’s life of success and live right where we are.
All I’m saying is for now let’s focus on one foot in front of the other and see where we go.
We’ve made some big mistakes, but we have a bigger God. He’s forgiven us, and promises life and pleasures forevermore at His right hand. We have joy now because we are learning and proving the Lord by putting Jesus first, others, then you.
Sometimes I worry. I won’t tell you we’ve stopped completely, but it’s not all-consuming anymore. The circumstances that bring us to worry also bring us to the feet of Jesus. Here in this humble spot, we find His undeserving grace and gentle embrace. It’s almost as if He wipes the tears from our eyes and places us back on our feet with new strength in our heart, and the assurance that He works all things together for His good and in His perfect time.
I do not know what the future holds, but I want you to know the pleasures of this world are not worth the joy, peace, and blessings found only in obedience to the Lord. You don’t have to worry when you are resting in the Lord. I have said this many times this past year, “You can worry, or have the Lord’s peace; you can’t have both.” So when the storms around you and inside of you begin to rage–know that you are in the perfect place to find His perfect peace. Humble yourself. On your hands and knees, plant your broken heart, and your shattered life as dying seeds. Only then can He, who holds tomorrow, cultivate life everlasting.
They tell me to write a letter to my younger self,
As if she wasn’t the person who made me who I am today,
As if I had more figured out about life now than I did when I was her age,
As if I had advice to give in the first place.
They tell me to tell her why she shouldn’t worry,
As if she was worried about anything.
I just wish they had a time machine,
For even if I did have words to say, they would never get to her.
Just as tomorrow’s me will never be able to give words to today’s me, so today’s me will never be able to give words to her.
For she does not exist anymore.
Who exists is the person I am today,
A person who came from who she was then.
So it had to be her back then writing a letter to me today.
It had to be her telling me not to worry,
She knew that better than today’s me anyway,
But that cannot happen.
For we do not have a time machine.
I cannot go back in time and write a letter to today’s me.
The only letter that can ever be received is the letter I write today to the future me.
Oh hi grief, we meet again and this time I am not fine. I was hoping that was the last time we would meet but once again I find myself counting down the time
Like the silent second hand of a watch everything feels numb
I can’t believe I’m here again but this time I don’t feel as dumb
Optimism use to shine bright like the sun reflecting off the waves but now I will have to sit alone- can I even be that brave
How can I even push through this horrendous season when last time you were the one who led
I guess I’ll have to hold my own hand and remember everything you said
Trying to feel the feels and maintain life for a while will be tough
I don’t want to do life without you- like omg why is life so rough
In the worst times of life you were my support and now this hardest time of all is coming and I feel all out of sorts
We have talked about our dreams and plans and never thought we’d have to go at them alone but one day I’ll be here with no other voice on the phone
You taught me to stand on my own and always look ahead and I’m so thankful for that because I am where I am today because of all the things you said
You pushed me, challenged me and always had my back and when things got crazy you helped me get back on track
I guess I’ll pack your things away to keep them safe and tight
All the while with tears streaming wishing you were here still in the fight
Some times the days feel hazy, uncertain and all so scary
But take heart, because you have a best friend coming that will help you carry.
Right now, at 15 you’re dealing with your first heartbreak,
But one day you will look back and find that everything was not at stake.
Your size, your hair and even what you wear seems all so top tier,
But really what’s important is overcoming all the fear.
You’re struggling to find who you are and the right place,
But one day soon you’ll look in the mirror and see that you’re value can’t be replaced.
You keep searching for the answers and every time you think you’ve found it, it’s as if you’re slapped in the face,
But sweet girl, you’re only a child- I wish I could show you how to give yourself some grace.
If you knew then what you know now, you would have an easier time,
In fact, you would sail through these coming years instead of walking around as if you are blind.
So I leave you with these wise words to put your mind at ease,
Everything really isn’t always at it seems.
Have you ever let your mind sit under a cherry blossom tree
The poetic renewal massages the stress away the same way as the beach waves
Copy and paste, lying next to you is like closing your eyes under the sunset oceanside
A bright blushing sky with kisses of orange, and blue with a honeyed taste that simply grabs you
But nothing is as sweet as your sugar, under the shade of this suite
Fresh chill of a neutral setting is cooked by our body temperature
Peace in the reflection is bringing us closer
When I look back at how we arrived at this destination within the calm ripples I see a truth in the tomb of love at first sight
Our photograph under the light being born from fallen petals is a coveted site
I had to see the treasure I already had instead of searching for gold
That’s when our story began to unfold, I hate folding clothes
I rather unfold and devour deep conversations over shallow beverages
She likes easy ice, but I want more, as deep as the roots of this tree
The ying and yang
Discovering the ocean intricacies when it closes its eyes to dream and wakes up with a kiss complemented by a southern twang
She’s my main thang, calling my land line
Our language reads between the lines
Wrinkled with age or bitten white chocolate sheets
I love seeing your cherry blossom cheeks
p.s. you be the pink and I’ll be the red for Valentine’s…
She is gone.
You stand there gazing at her body,
Waiting for her to stand up, to reach out, and to call your name.
Thoughts of fear and loneliness circle in your mind,
and you whisper, “Nothing, will be the same”.
You are right.
The mother who held you when you skinned your knees,
Who sang all the time and filled a room with joy.
The one that laughed at your jokes, scolded you more than she should have had to,
And listened as you told her about your crush on a boy.
Yes, she is gone.
But do not fear little Destiny.
She gave you thirteen years of love and lessons.
Do not be afraid to spread your wings and be the person she taught you to be.
For I know that though nothing is the same, everything will be ok.
You will fall in love, and then out of love many times.
You will run from everything, only to find yourself return.
You will fail.
Over, and over again, you will fail.
But again, I say, do not be afraid my dear Destiny,
For you and I are one and the same.
We have loved and been loved in return.
We sing all the time and fill rooms with joy.
We have held our babies, through pain and tears.
We have loved and we have lost.
And through it all, we have prevailed.
Strong, independent, joyful, and loved.
We are who she taught us to be.
She is gone.
But she remains.
In your heart, as you love so deeply.
In you smile, as you laugh and joke.
In your song, as tunes float from your lips.
And in the woman that you will grow to become.
Stand tall, little one,
Believe in yourself,
And remember
She is not really gone.
Beautiful girl, you are not behind. You are not wasting time. You are not in the way.
You are living. You are learning. You are strengthening your heart.
Your dreams are perfect for you. Chasing money is for others. It’s not your passion and you don’t need it to be. You have always had enough and just having that understanding makes you richer than many.
Your love for others is not too much. You are practicing for the people who deserve it. Without those who cross you, you might have made mistakes on the good ones.
Your loyalty to love is not getting in the way of a career. Your best job ever will come hand in hand with the life you’ve always wanted.
Be patient. Momma at heart. You will wait for your babies and the ache will throb for some time. You will see how lucky you were to wait. You have such a smart uterus.
You are your own universe. No others’ rules apply to you so let people preach and and move the way you want anyway.
You were made just the way you needed to be and you were made well.
Hi Linda
OK first things first…it is ok that you don’t feel like you fit in anywhere. You do not have to get married and have a family. Having a career and not getting married or having children is fine. I know you get mad whenever anyone says it, but it will be all right in the long term. You will have had one successful career and be in the middle of a second successful career by your fifties.
It is all right, though you don’t believe me now, to be wired differently from other “girls” You will find your way and end up with many similarly minded friends who you have a good time with. Also, not everything is your fault, even if you did know, and might have stopped it, the other people involved in the activity SHARE the responsibility. You CAN NOT control the people around you or their choices, but you CAN control how you respond and if you continue to associate with them.
I am not going to lie you will make a TON of mistakes but it’s ok, remember to learn the lesson instead of beating yourself for a mistake.
Lastly, I want you to know that even if you aren’t “pretty enough” or “smart enough” or “good enough” you are in fact enough. You are by no stretch of the imagination much like your siblings and it will be fine. All of you will grow up and become closer as you each learn about what the other is good at and excels at doing.
It will be bumpy, but you can get through it and I will be ahead of you to show you how.
Hey, what’s good, young man? Sitting with your back against a cold wall in the courtyard. You’re lonely, yes… I know your feelings are low. Friends? Little lady? Ah, no! I know the only thing colder than that wall is the one you put up in front of yourself. Right now, loneliness is the result of the burden that has you in a chokehold. Yes, your shyness, verbal and emotional suffocation are the main things that prevent you from communicating, hell, even relating to the world outside your wall. What you see as fear, young man, I bring a message to say that your silence is your biggest strength. You see, while you’re silent, your discernment reigns supreme. Your discernment comes from above because your guidance comes from within. To your fellow adolescents, what’s popular is to blend, adopting fakeness to fit in, but everyone becomes the same when you crucify your true self for the sake of fame.
Here is the revised version of your text with some corrections:
Your mystery is intriguing; it stands out. Your thoughts are real, and your morals are pure because you didn’t forsake them; you remained yourself. You will begin to attract many, but your discernment is supreme. Everyone is offered your kindness, but not everyone is invited into your life. So, trust me when I say that the people who make it across that wall are there because your guide saw it fit; they had a place. Yes, you are lonely, but it is only to prepare you to fully appreciate the faithful people who will truly remain. I know this is hard to obtain, but trust me, the strongest people are those who endure. This will allow you to truly appreciate the people and opportunities that make it through.
So, young man, all I ask is that you continue to be yourself, endure, because it’s all working towards something pure. You are wise among your peers because your discernment reigns supreme. The opportunities and people who make it through; you won’t even have to worry because they hold the same qualities, morals, and values that you do. (taps wall) I love this wall that you have; I love your silence. Your discernment will truly allow you to open up. While you will always express love to everyone, what I love most is that the most intimate and solid aspects are for the people and things that make it through.
It’s 3:33 am & this old house is way to quiet.
I should be in bed, but I just had to try it.
Started as a thought, then my mind showed me an image.
I shoulda known I’d regret this in an instant.
I gotta get passed this and give it some distance
I define willpower and screw you addiction.
I’ve got two years sober I promise heroine doesn’t love you.
Sending love well being and hope to anyone struggling with addiction. Never forget the stars shine for you .
Hellos to all my name is Sara, I have loved writing since I was a child, I really had a lot of desire for writing it was and is such a great outlet I really enjoyed it, as i got older I chose to go down a troubled road and now at the age of 35 I am beginning to find myself as a women as a mother as a daughter a partner and friend. I saw this group on Facebook and knew it would help me grow.