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ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic Why do you love yourself? 1 weeks, 2 days ago
Thanks so so so much! Im so thankful to have found a new creative family and be able to share a vulnerable state with you all. It feels good to express myself and write reminders to myself, which in turn, helps others 💕 😃
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ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic Poetry 1 weeks, 2 days ago
Thank you! Im glad you could take something upbuilding from it! 💕
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ashleyg9393 shared a letter in the
Health, Wellness and Chronic Conditions group 1 weeks, 2 days agoThe Art of Growth
A GrahamThe Art of Growth
Stagnant. Dormant. Idle. Sluggish.
All feelings of a pace I’ve gotten too familiar with.
I’m in a courtship with anxiety,
And an engagement with depression.
Yet, these are two relationships I don’t want to be a part of.Reflect. Ponder. Meditate. Think.
These daily reminders ping in my head.
Telling me to give myself a break, take it easy, let it out and let it go.
But they only stay for the moment, and then I forget to be kind to myself.I wonder what being 30 is like for others.
I wonder what being 30 is like for me.
Am I behind? Am I lost? Is this okay?I reflect on how everyone is moving at their own pace.
I ponder over how far I’ve come, yet how short of a time I’ve been around.
I meditate on how there’s no such thing as behind, because this is my version of now.
I think about how being lost isn’t a bad thing. It’s an opportunity to learn.
It’s okay. I’ll be okay. And that’s the art of growth. -
ashleyg9393 shared a letter in the
Poetry group 1 months, 4 weeks agoMy version of gratitude.
Ashley GrahamMy version of gratitude
Hello to the day, beautifully curated with sunlight, greenery and birds cheering us on.
Today I’ll take you on, with grace, and effort better than the last.
I pray to the heavens where my father resides, and he sends down a shower of blessings.
I greet those that I love far and near, some with hugs, others with yellow hearts and kind words.
Using my mind and body to get things done, although it’s not a joy, at least I have the ability.
Spending time on my hobbies, creativity flows effortlessly through my veins.
Carving out the time for each goal on my list because procrastination and I are on the verge of a breakup.
By the time the moon clocks in, and the stars provide company, I’ll eagerly find relaxation.
Aimless scrolling as I wind down, and brown noise until I’m asleep.
I could complain about how imperfect everyday is but I’ll take a rain check.
Right now, I’m just grateful to be here. -
ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic What are your goals for the new year? 1 months, 4 weeks ago
Thanks Lauren! I think no matter what age we are, we can always benefit from a reminder like that one. I’m so happy you found personal comfort in this piece. Thanks for giving so many of us the space to be ourselves 🥰🥰
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ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic Poetry 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Thanks so much! And wow that’s such a privilege 🧡🧡 hope it resonated with many.
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ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic Poetry 2 months, 2 weeks ago
☺️ thanks a ton! This poem felt very true to myself. I need that constant reminder to keep me from cruising through like. We’ve gotta enjoy every moment as much as possible!
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ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic Poetry 2 months, 2 weeks ago
Thanks so much! I’m happy to hear your appreciation 💕
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ashleyg9393 submitted a contest entry to
Why do you love yourself? 2 months, 2 weeks agoTo Ashley, From Ashley.
Ashley GBaby girl,
How are you these days?
I wanted to share some of the things I love about you, with you, because I know it can be easy to forget them. But you’ve come so far. Gliding into your 30s with goals you didn’t have a year ago, that’s commendable. Constantly drawing close to God and allowing him to guide you, that’s admirable.You’re funny, and friendly. You make a room glow even without the light switch being on. You’re very upbeat and upbuilding too. Many wouldn’t be with the battles you’ve endured, but here you are! So capable and so unique.
So “go with the flow” and “whatever happens, happens”. That’s hard to grasp for some, but you make it look like an adventure. Your passion for creativity is stunning and you thrive in the realm. Your cooking skills are incredible! Who throws down in the kitchen better than you? A wife, dog mom, and companion that’s always trying to give 1000%. Don’t ever let that go!
I’m so proud that we are one. Keep celebrating the wins, even the tiniest of them all. Cry out the fails and get back into it. We’re unstoppable. And you’ve always got me in your corner cheering you on!
Your best friend,
Me.
Voting is open!
Voting ends May 16, 2024 12:00am
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Aww Ashley, I love all of this. This line stood out to me because i have seen it action: “You make a room glow even without the light switch being on.” You so do light up a room (even a zoom room). You have such positive, kind and wise energy. It’s definitely special. I love the idea of celebrating all your wins. Even the little wins. Keep being…read more
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Thanks so so so much! Im so thankful to have found a new creative family and be able to share a vulnerable state with you all. It feels good to express myself and write reminders to myself, which in turn, helps others 💕 😃
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ashleyg9393 responded to a letter in topic Poetry 2 months, 3 weeks ago
Yes so true! I’m glad we can be here for each other. Thanks for your kind words!
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ashleyg9393 shared a letter in the
Poetry group 2 months, 3 weeks agoHappiness
Are you awake?
Are you happy?Because your eyes are welled up and your mouth is sealed with fear.
Do you dream?
With your eyes open?Because the loneliness in your heart is quite thick in the air.
Take courage, and stand up tall.
You deserve to be heard and felt.
Remember, that in this game, you’re in charge of the cards once dealt.One step closer to who you desire to be, as the tears drip down your face.
Keep moving, steadily from the past but gracefully at your own pace.Reflect and mediate on the journey that you’ve now come to know.
Set boundaries, burn bridges – not everyones here to watch you grow.A smirk, and then a smile, is that teeth I’m starting to see?
Is there enjoyment in the destination that you are gradually envisioning for me?Are you awake?
Are you happy?No, the ride won’t always be fun.
Yes, self love and peace of mind will be signs that your job is done.-
Indeed happiness reminds us to be brave. Your poem is inspiring and encourages us to enjoy the process of becoming who we want to be. Thank you for sharing it with us.
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Yes so true! I’m glad we can be here for each other. Thanks for your kind words!
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I love this poem, Ashley! It nicely highlights the connection between courage/action and happiness! I am including it in today’s newsletter 🙂
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Thanks so much! And wow that’s such a privilege 🧡🧡 hope it resonated with many.
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This is a very inspiring reminder that our happiness lies at our finger tips. I also love how you repeated the phrase “Are you awake? Are you happy?” It made this story very full circle 🙂
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☺️ thanks a ton! This poem felt very true to myself. I need that constant reminder to keep me from cruising through like. We’ve gotta enjoy every moment as much as possible!
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Your words show strength and confidence. Keep reaching for the stars.
Shelley
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ashleyg9393 shared a letter in the
Poetry group 2 months, 3 weeks agoReconstruction
Reconstruction
Peel off my layers,
Unravel my fears,
Decode my lies,
Dispose of my tears,
Exclude my insecurities,
Arrange my “self”,
Comfort my wounds,
Aide me with health,
Please my soul with creations,
Subtract the debt,
Remind me that what’s good is currently left,
Make me good as new,
Forgive my past,
Have faith in my future,
Believe I will last,
Consider my growth,
Encourage the process,
Be my stool to newer heights,
Give me space when I’m stressed,
After all you’ve done and all you do,
I hope my reconstruction is perfect for you.-
You are extremely talented. I love the flow of this poem so much! As soon as you said “peel off my layers” I immediately imagined layers of myself physically peeling; it was a great opening line to pull the reader in!
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Thanks so much! I’m happy to hear your appreciation 💕
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ashleyg9393 submitted a contest entry to
What are your goals for the new year? 3 months, 1 weeks agoCapable Woman
Ashley GrahamDear me,
Yes you,
You are a capable woman. Strong, intelligent, and resilient is your name. You put fires out that are aimlessly burning, and in the same breath have the ability to ignite the most powerful flames.
You are a capable woman. A dog mom, a cheerful wife, and a spiritual pillar to many. You work hard in everything you do even when it’s not ideal.
You are a capable woman. Allow yourself the time you need – to heal, to laugh, to cry, and to sigh. Life will always be busy, but you deserve some rest. Remember, you are capable but you are also human.Oh, capable woman. Please dive into yourself. Make your 30s your best. Let go of the void and shake off the excess stress. Who are we mentally, physically, emotionally & spiritually? Let’s find that out. Can we buy out the time to do what we love? Can we live by our rules?
My dear capable woman. This time is yours to spend. Follow your heart and find peace within. Build up yourself the way you desire to be. I believe you can do it. I believe in me.
Love always,
An aspiring capable woman
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Ashley! I love this piece. As I was reading it it felt as though it was written for me. It was what I needed to here (even though I am well in to my 30’s). I loved this line, “Oh, capable woman. Please dive into yourself. Make your 30s your best. Let go of the void and shake off the excess stress.” Thank you for sharing this piece and thank you…read more
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Thanks Lauren! I think no matter what age we are, we can always benefit from a reminder like that one. I’m so happy you found personal comfort in this piece. Thanks for giving so many of us the space to be ourselves 🥰🥰
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