I don’t think I believe in heaven or hell much anymore . My beliefs are iffy . Why do I have to choose one thing , I won’t .. I don’t know where you are but the place I imagine is in a beautiful place with no pain no hurt . You have a big drum set & you’re playing and smiling and happy and okay . It’s been almost 10 months since I lost my brother , the closest person in my life . I’m starting to feel it more , I hope to feel your presence one of these days , I don’t know if you’re with me . I don’t know if you’ve thought about me , I barely know what to say half of the time . I try to order a margarita everytime I go out but it hasn’t been much . I’ve been alone since you left , I am alone . I wish you would’ve tried again . The day after you killed yourself do you wake up and watch me cry , watched your mom not be able to breathe , watch the dog be confused where you went . It’s crazy how life can continue to move on without you here . I love you forever . Grief is finally sneaking up on me , I can’t even speak about you with my eyes tearing up . I could 9 months ago . I could say it all , now I can’t . I don’t know why : I hope there’s a beautiful drumline in the sky . I hope you’re in paradise D .
Kierra, I am so very sorry for your loss. Grief is nauseating rollercoaster ride. All your feelings are so valid, and your response is so normal. Sending you the biggest hug. I know your brother is somewhere watching over you. Sending you and your family so much love. <3 Lauren
Thank you so much for your kind words . I appreciate that . It’s definitely a a coaster of enthusiasm. Grief is a scary and weird thing . The cycles feel endless
I’m sorry you had to lose such a impactful person/the closest person in your life. I know it was hard when you found out he was gone. But it will get easier. Just keep fighting and pushing his memory.
So sorry for you, because a times, I feel the same way. We suppose to believe there’s a Heave and a Hell, but to me, most of the time I feel that Hell is on earth. I never knew how death really feel until I lost my mom. I hated almost any and everything that was moving in the world, because my mother wasn’t. How fair is that? Yes, it gets a little…read more
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope he’s in a place of beauty and in no pain. Grief is difficult but as time goes on it’ll get easier. The pain will fade. Just take it one day at a time.