Heartbreak taught me to put myself first. To not self abandon, especially when my partners don’t ask that of me, to not be so self sacrificing out of fear of being abandoned because in the end, if they wanna leave.. they will.. no matter how good you treat them. Even if their actions trigger my abandonment wounds, to have the courage to leave and trust my instinct when it shows me a situation or person isn’t meant for me. Heartbreak has taught me many many things, to not be so quick to fall in love, to take things really slow, to take your sweet time opening up to people again until it feels safe to trust. The right person will wait for you, will be gentle with you, will understand your wounds and pain, will want to be there alongside you as you learn to pick up the pieces again. Heartbreak taught me that I am enough, that I am NOT the problem, because all my exes and lovers have always come back over and over because they too know, that a woman like me is a once in a lifetime experience and you’ll be searching for me in everyone you meet. I am an experience, you’ll learn to love yourself, to meet yourself, to experience unconditional love when you collide with me.