Dear Ashley,

Today, I want to take a moment to honor and thank you—a person whose journey is a testament to strength, compassion, and resilience. You’ve not only weathered storms that could have easily drowned a weaker soul, but you’ve transformed those experiences into a beacon of light for others. This letter is my way of recognizing the heart, dedication, and unyielding passion you’ve poured into your work, your family, and yourself.

You began life with challenges that could have defined you differently. From abandonment as a baby to experiencing the pain of loss and fear as a child, you’ve carried burdens many wouldn’t understand. And yet, instead of letting those hardships harden your heart, you chose to open it wider. Instead of succumbing to bitterness, you embraced empathy. You’ve become someone who not only dreams of a brighter future for others but actively works to create it.

As an Early Head Start worker, you’ve shown up every day to nurture, guide, and inspire children during some of the most formative years of their lives. Your work has been more than a job—it’s been a calling. You’ve taken your personal understanding of struggle and turned it into a wellspring of compassion, providing a safe, loving space for children to grow. You’ve helped them navigate the complexities of early childhood, showing patience when they struggled, celebrating their milestones, and encouraging their independence.

Think of the moments that may have seemed small to others but were monumental for those children—the quiet reassurance you gave to a nervous child on their first day, the joy in their eyes when they finally mastered a skill you taught them, the times you wiped away tears and replaced them with smiles. You’ve done more than teach them ABCs and 123s; you’ve shown them what it means to be cared for, to be seen, and to be valued. That is a gift that stays with someone for a lifetime.

But your impact doesn’t stop with the children. You’ve touched the lives of families, many of whom are facing struggles you know all too well. Through your understanding and empathy, you’ve become a source of hope and guidance for parents who may feel lost or overwhelmed. You’ve extended your hand to help them find the tools and strength to build a better future for their children. You’ve shared your light, even on days when your own path felt dark.

As much as you’ve poured into others, the love and care you give your own children is extraordinary. Your daughter sees in you a role model—a woman who, even through challenges, prioritizes love, growth, and creativity. She is a reflection of your dedication and strength, and her joy and curiosity are testaments to the safe, nurturing environment you’ve built for her.

And your son—what an incredible journey the two of you have had together. From the very start, you’ve been his rock, his comfort, and his guide. He’s watched you navigate life’s challenges with grace and determination, learning from your example how to be resilient, kind, and strong. Through your love and unwavering support, you’ve shown him what it means to stand tall even when life feels heavy. The bond you share with him is unshakable, and it will continue to grow as he builds on the foundation of love and strength you’ve provided.

Both of your children remind you daily of the beauty and purpose in your life. In them, you see your legacy—a reflection of all the hard work, faith, and love you’ve poured into your family. They inspire you to keep going, just as you inspire them with your courage and unwavering determination.

Beyond your work and family, you’ve taken your story—your pain, your triumphs, and your faith—and turned it into a platform to help others. Through your blog, your testimony, and your creative projects, you are reaching people who need to hear your voice. You’re reminding them that they are not alone, that there is hope even in the hardest of times. That takes courage, vulnerability, and an unshakable belief in the power of connection.

You’ve given so much to others, but I want to remind you of the importance of giving to yourself as well. Take pride in the legacy you’re building—one of compassion, perseverance, and love. Recognize that it’s okay to pause, to breathe, to celebrate how far you’ve come. You are deserving of rest, joy, and the same care you’ve extended to others.

As you continue your journey, remember that your work matters. Every moment of encouragement you give, every life you touch, ripples out into the world in ways you may never fully see. The children you’ve nurtured will carry your kindness with them as they grow. The families you’ve supported will be stronger because of your guidance. Your own children will stand as living proof of your strength and love. And the people who hear your story will find courage in their own lives because of your example.

Thank you for never giving up, for continuing to believe in the goodness of others even when life gave you reasons not to, and for finding beauty in the midst of brokenness. Thank you for being a light in the lives of so many, including your son, your daughter, and yourself. You are proof that even in the face of adversity, resilience and love can triumph.

With deep gratitude and admiration,
Your Inner Voice