Dear Anita,

You have overcome so many obstacles in your life, and for that, I am deeply proud of you. You faced relentless bullying throughout school, endured the pain of sexual abuse, and battled through mental health challenges that could have broken you. Yet, through it all, you kept pushing forward.

You’ve had to learn how to love yourself, to heal from wounds that ran deep, all while being a devoted mother to an autistic child who depends on your strength and love. And you did it—you continue to do it every day.

You’ve fallen down more times than you can count, but you always get back up. You’ve faced struggles head-on, often carrying the weight on your own, all while raising two incredible children. As a full-time worker in the demanding and stressful environment of a prison, you’ve shown resilience and perseverance that few could match.

Anita, you are an inspiration to so many women who feel misunderstood, unappreciated, or unseen. You’ve been called ugly and torn down by others your whole life, yet you didn’t let their words define you. You’ve been picked on for learning differently, for navigating life with your own autism, ADHD, and other challenges. But you didn’t give up. You didn’t let their words continue to break you.

Despite the pain, you smile—even when you feel like crying. You have trusted in God to carry you through, and that faith has given you strength to stand tall in the face of adversity. Your story is proof that even when the world tries to dim your light, you can still shine brightly.

Never forget how far you’ve come, how much you’ve accomplished, and how many lives you’ve touched. You are powerful, resilient, and beautiful inside and out. Your journey is a beacon of hope and strength for others who are fighting their own battles.

With love and pride,
Anita