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  • Hi Emmy, Thank you for your kind words and as I age, I realize I am still a “Work In Progress”.

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  • Hi Kara, looking younger than you actually are in the words of Monk, is a blessing and a curse. At the age of 39 and wan to be taken more serious seems unfair and exhausting. However, keep living and as you attend your 50th High School reunion you will realize the blessings of good genes and a good figure. IT IS OKAY.

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  • Letter to Kinloch, Missouri

    Letter To Kinloch, Missouri, the place where I grew up and lived until age 19.

    Dear Kinloch Mo.,

    As a once buzzing all-Black city located in the suburb of St. Louis, Missouri, I want to say thank
    you. The things I learned, observed and experienced inside your city limits I cannot ever
    replace. These were the times when society was pushing separate but equal. However, Kinloch
    you were separate but great.

    Remembering the story of Rumpelstiltskin where the beautiful maiden was ordered to spin
    straw into gold. The citizens of Kinloch were given lots of straw, namely old textbooks, outdoor
    toilets, houses and schools without air condition. The gold that spun from the straw is a
    nationally known actress, singer/songwriter, political officials, doctors, lawyers, school
    teachers, nurses, and me.

    I learned the art of public speaking and presenting with confidence. We had to practice that art
    at least twice a year through Easter and Christmas speeches, at least until age twelve. We also
    had the children’s choir at church and the Kinloch High school choir that was so renowned, we
    were invited to may competitions and concerts. An album was produced by the choir.
    Greatness in every sense of the word.

    I also learned what Black-owned businesses and entrepreneurship looked like. In Kinloch, we
    had many examples. Kinloch had numerous small confectionaries (corner stores) that sold
    soda, cut meat, and penny candy to the school kids. I can remember gas stations, liquid stores,
    grocery stores, restaurants, clothing stores and even a night club which was all Black-owned
    and operated. I guess you can say the city was pretty much self-contained.

    I learned the value of helping and supporting your neighbors. In Kinloch, we were all poor by
    many economic standards; however, we did not know we were poor because we were rich in
    community. Credit was freely extended to customers that could not pay but promised to pay on
    payday or when they got their check. For those that fell on even tougher times, families
    willingly extended help. Respect was demanded from the children and adults. Adults enforced
    that code of conduct when it came to the children. The village raised us.

    Kinloch was incorporated which afforded us to have our own all-Black city government. Our
    mayor, aldermen, city clerk, police department, fire department and judge were managed by
    our own. We also had our own School Superintendent and School Board. Our school system, of
    course was substandard but great. The teachers encouraged, no demanded, your best
    regardless of textbook conditions.

    Kinloch, I am sad to admit that while growing up inside your protected cocoon, I did not realize
    the total extent of your greatness. I did not see the beauty of the resilience and determination
    demonstrated and expected from each of us. You led by example.

    These are things that will forever be with me: Spinning straw into gold is difficult but
    achievable. Trials and tribulations can produce treasures.

    Thank you for what you did for me and so many others!

    Sincerely,
    Glenda Small
    Kinloch High School Class of 1973

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    GLENDA M SMALL

    Voting starts July 26, 2025 12:00am

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  • Letter to My Future Self

    Hi Silver Fox,

    I just want to say Happy 80th birthday! I hope you had a great, fun-filled birthday because eighty years of life deserves to be celebrated.

    You do not know me yet, but allow me to introduce myself, I am you at the age of 70. I, too, have just celebrated a birthday, and I am feeling kind of special even after becoming a widow after over 42 years of marriage. Due to all the deaths, we have experienced together in our lives, I can honestly say, I did not think we would have made it to eighty. I realized on our birthday that if I want to actually meet you in 10 years, I needed to get to work and start changing a few things. Today I have promised to make us a priority. All of our lives, we have given our life away! Let’s take the remaining years for ourselves! This cannot be viewed as selfish, you agree? Even writing this letter to you, it triggers a sense of strange relief.

    My goals and wishes for us is that we have good health, travel, and independence. I wish that we have the ability to do whatever we are big enough to do! I choose life and living for us.

    Let’s get started on our grocery list of changes and the things we need to overcome and take a short trip down memory lane.

    We have survived the death of all our family members mother, father, brother and two sisters. First there were six and now there is one. Our sisters had children in which we tried to fill the auntie role and provided a safety net for their pain and shortcomings. Although some situations our nieces and nephew created themselves through poor choices while some situations were thrusted on them due to the absence of their mothers and life experiences , all while married and trying to raise our daughter. I often wonder why God allowed us to be the mother of so many. It is my prayer that when I catch up to you, we will look back over our life and the answer will become clearer.

    These are the changes I need to make to improve our quality of life: I pledge to you to become more active and exercise at least three times a week. I also will watch my diet and maintain a healthy weight. Another goal is to reduce or eliminate the medications I currently take. It will probably take most of the ten years to achieve these things, but we can do it.

    I hope that your expectation of me is to do all the things that allow you to be the best version of yourself.

    Praying that God will continue to keep us with good health, sound mind, and the financial ability to do whatever we want. Silver Fox, stay strong and sassy! Catch up to you later.

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    Glenda

    Voting starts July 2, 2025 12:00am

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    • Glenda, happy 70th birthday! I am sure that the wisdom you’ve acquired in your life would impress me, and I’m sure you will garner even more before you hit 80. It is amazing that you are setting concrete goals for yourself to make the next ten years enjoyable, and I wish you all the best. Thank you for sharing your experience!

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