To: My amazing Dad
From: Your Daughter living with Turner Syndrome

My dear dad, I know it’s been a while, and I don’t thank you enough. Recently, you shared with me a quote from Shakespeare’s A Midsummer Night’s Dream: “Although she be but little, she is fierce”. My depression lately due to feeling invisible and different due to my disability is robbing me of happiness and weakening my optimism. Since birth, you have shown me the world’s reaction to my positive spirit and compassion for life. This unfortunately is lacking presently. Let me explain how Shakespeare’s quote has lifted my spirits from a dark depressed mood, to feeling more joyful every day. My feelings were that of an empty soul, and there were days when the tears would not stop flowing.

Recent frustrating times are in addition to the many challenges endured living with a chromosomal abnormality called Turner Syndrome. In fact, it was a miracle my birth even occurred. As you know, only 2% of women make it to birth. I had to overcome other challenges, in addition to short stature, including infertility, social anxiety, and heart issues.

My feelings of invisibility increased lately as some people who I thought were close and trustworthy, turned their back on me and attempted to affect my relationship with you. Just know that no matter what happens, nobody can break our bond. I will remain resilient.

It is definitely a blessing to know that I was raised with a beautiful heart and a very strong soul. You have stressed that the sky is the limit. You have also encouraged me to accomplish anything I desire in my life, and to just continue to be the resilient and independent person I was born to be. To transform from my current state of mind to a more fulfilled existence, the decision was made to educate people about Turner Syndrome. Too many healthcare providers did not seem familiar with this. Happy times resulted meeting other women with Turner Syndrome and developing friendships. These activities were recognized by my family and friends… and even my hometown.

My advocacy work spreading Turner Syndrome awareness was finally recognized by the local news station, which was super exciting. Here is where Shakespeare’s quote impacted by life. I thought positive, and kept a fierce determined attitude that I was going to be interviewed. Five days later, my dream came true. The title of Shining Star was awarded to me for spreading awareness of Turner Syndrome. This was accomplished by participating in local health fairs at various hospitals. Along with advocacy work, the goal at that time was to start a local Turner Syndrome group. My efforts have not been in vain as while on this unstoppable journey, many wonderful people have surfaced along with new friendships.

The highlight of the past year was the distinguished opportunity to meet the mayor of our city along with a photo opportunity. This also resulted in the mayor awarding me a proclamation declaring that the month of February within our city will be recognized as Turner Syndrome month. The month of February may have been chosen, as women with Turner Syndrome have short stature. Not bad for the ‘shortest’ month. Sorry, dad, I couldn’t resist.

I will always be your loving daughter, and although I am small in stature, you told me that I conduct my life with determination, grace, and zest. I have learned to be brave and strong while being bombarded with difficult situations; however, I now believe my attitude no doubt inspires many people, which is wonderful.

Thank you for sharing Shakespeare’s beautiful quote. Every time I read the quote, it will serve as a reminder of my many challenges and the steps that were taken to meet each challenge with an unstoppable outlook. I am very proud to be your daughter, and want to keep showing this beautiful world my true colors.

From your empowered daughter,

Eileen