Hey, sweet girl.

It’s me. It’s you. It’s us. It’s always been us. I’ve always been here, with you, protecting you. Even when life felt scary, unsafe, confusing, unfair, or impossible. You were never alone. And you were ALWAYS enough.

But what does that even mean? What does it even feel like to Be Enough? Is such a thing possible, or are we all just faking it as much as we can to make it through the days? Are we thriving or just surviving? I know we didn’t grow up with the money or privileges others had. In high school and college, you were told you weren’t skinny enough to be a dancer. Multiple heartbreaks have left you cynical, questioning whether you’ll ever find love or be able to trust deeply again. You watched as your twin sister got married and had twins of her own, starting a fully new family right in front of your eyes. You’ve questioned your worth as a woman in this world and fought hard to take up space. And that’s just naming a few battles. Surviving it is.

Life has come at you hard, babe. Despite all that, you’re here. And I am so proud of all you’ve gone through and everything you’ve overcome. It breaks my heart, though, to see how all of that has dimmed your beautiful light just a little.

Well, I’m here to tell you that soon you will thrive in a way you never imagined possible. And not because you will have money, or your dream job, or a ring, or anything materialistic to “prove” your enoughness. But because you will thrive in a place that you believe in. A healing place. ALL the people who made you feel you weren’t enough will disappear. Their words will no longer hold weight. You finally chassé across the stage of life again with sparkle and swagger. Those traumatic memories will be a thing of the past, and you will finally see yourself the way I see you. Grounded in love, safety, and power!

Don’t be afraid, even though it is scary. Go towards it. Bravely. Just like you have gone towards everything in your life that you’ve had to fight for. And you will continue to fight for your dreams and to find love and for a life as exciting and bright as you are. But you will do it KNOWING you are more than worthy of anything and everything this life has to offer. You’re a tiny dancer with big dreams. And when you no longer feel the weight of the “not enoughness”, you will burst like a firework and light up the sky just like you were created to do. I see it. I’m living in it. And I’m here to tell you that every single thing this life throws at you is a lesson to learn, not a brick to build a wall. 

Stay bright, my sweet girl. I know our light dimmed for a moment there, and we got lost. It was scary and confusing. Hey, you’re only human. But like I knew you would, you found your way through. And on the other end was an evolution of you. A version of you that was patiently waiting to be found. You’re becoming. I am so excited for you to feel YOUR light. And THAT is what enough feels like. A firework that is unapologetic about doing exactly what it was designed to do. Light up the sky. And just like Elvis, I can’t help falling in love with you.
Now, enough is enough!

From You, With Love

Sweet Angie