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vbutler13 submitted a contest entry to
Write a poem or letter to the world about an experience that changed you or your life for the better 1 day, 22 hours agoDInSTANT Comfort
Valencia B.Distant:
While it seemed as if the world was falling apart, In 2020, the deepest parts of myself were drastically coming together.
Strikingly, my spiritual reawakening shifted the entire trajectory of my perspective, including everything else that slowly led to this rare occurrence.
All within that same year, I had an epiphany that came to pass nearly a year later… When a close friend of mine had just moved to Texas, somehow I intuitively felt that I was soon going to as well. Although, I had never been there or even thought about it prior.
To some degree, it was beautiful to share this news with close relatives about all that I was experiencing spiritually and planning to do.
That still came with some disheartening moments and conversations. No one else fully understood or related to me and I had to accept that they may never will.
Instant:
In 2021, The opportunity finally presented itself. I was asked if I would like to move to Texas and take the leap of fate as my best friend’s roommate… and I did!
With the expectation to do Real Estate, I had no clue what would unfold there. But, I moved from Michigan with only $1k saved for my road trip and received angel numbers reassuring me I would be assisted with everything else I needed. The divine used strangers, signs, and miracles from every angle.
I had never driven a U-Haul before then. Ironically, there was a shortage going on at the time. I had to drive a 20″ truck, which was very intimidating!!! While prepping for the move there, my best friend offered to fly in to drive with me towards my new destination.
It was one of the BEST things I could have EVER done. It has created literal direction and purpose (for each area of my life).
I was able to dive deeper into my healing journey. All while closely reevaluating my life and where I truly desired to, which seemed to have been a challenging journey before and throughout arriving there.
Comfort:
After living in Texas for almost two years, I am forever grateful for all of my learning experiences there. It felt like some sacred spiritual retreat for both of us to be present and within our freedom. I loved it! It has helped shape me while experiencing the purest joy, even during occasional harsh storms of other emotions.
I’ve had to make peace with the sacrifices I have made throughout this path… Letting go of old friends, distancing from toxic family members, being willing to be somewhat isolated for deeper introspection, and going to lengths without a set income, to name a few.
Throughout my life, I haven’t felt as connected to seeing anything regarding purpose within jobs, schooling, and other things.
However, I undeniably committed to follow through. It’s been nothing short of a blessing to receive the exchange of what’s on the other side of it… Unlimited possibility.
Many things in life come at the cost of facing many truths, changes and growing while in some uncomfortable moments.
Although I am unchanged at the core, I’ve grown so much as a being! This happens to be a lifelong journey I am willing to go the distance to explore.
Voting starts June 17, 2024 12:00am
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic What are your goals for the new year? 4 weeks ago
This!!! I am soooo here for it. I feel the exact same way on literally every point you mentioned.
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Why do you love yourself? 4 weeks ago
Thank you so much Lauren! I really do appreciate you 💜
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vbutler13 submitted a contest entry to
Write about a time you didn’t give up 1 month agoThe Second Turn Around
Valencia B.I started taking up Ballet when I was about six years old. Despite how fleeting it was, I can still vividly recall being in school changing into my pink leotard and shoes my mom had bought me. I also remember doing a few shape and hand-movement coordination that my class had done.
Throughout most of my life, being around my family during gatherings would create space for me to dance and connect with my community while being hyped up by their cheering and smiling faces. Around my early-late adolescent years, I felt as if I was the life of the party around friends and others my age.
I was up to date on all the latest moves and bold enough to share it during dance-offs. I often would imagine myself dancing in music videos. More specifically, dancing with one of my favorite performers as I would constantly watch and mirror every move of hers.
I was no wallflower, which surprised others when they saw me move! However, at some point, all of the partying faded away. There were even no more family gatherings as we once had.
That brings me to now seeing that roughly eight years later, I would be here seriously pursuing my passion as a dancer and sharing the gift to minister light into this world. I could feel deeply within my spirit that I would to some capacity.
At 28 years old, last year in 2023, I recall being out for a meditative walk. I was a bit frustrated with where I was while living with family and not being off yet to where I initially planned to be (moving to California).
However, during that very walk, I felt intuitively led toward a Christian Center right around the corner. Everything within my spirit and surroundings allured me (the birds loudly calling in the dead of winter near the location).
The next day was a Sunday. I attended service and a few more after that. By surprise, one day I was able to see them live on stage. I was then in awe to learn that their creative arts department had a dance team.
For a brief moment, I had let fear get the best of me by telling myself “I’ll join in somewhere else here… I’ll join the poetry small group”. Undeniably, dance is a part of what makes me passionate about the flow of music and the freedom to move.
On the contrary, my previous encounter with stepping into this space did not go well!!! I was in my second semester at Western Michigan University when I had taken contemporary dance and music exploration as electives that I was excited to take.
Unfortunately, depression (which I thought would subside after winter break) was staring at me right in the face. Showing up for classes was a struggle to keep up on my main courses, let alone electives. While I was sitting in my dorm room contemplating what I would do. I had decided to drop dance.
I felt so embarrassed on my last day being there. While gliding across the floor in groups, my focus had my mind and body moving opposite from the crowd, causing me to stand out like a sore thumb.
Now, I’ve come to realize the question “If you had a second chance at this, to do anything, would you take it?” I said YES to taking a real chance this time around! I asked whomever I could to inquire about joining their CAD Department. Eventually, I was sitting in on my 1st official practice.
My 1st audition for a part felt like a stretch emotionally. I felt my spirit needing to fully “break out.” However, I still felt some resistance and energy to work through.
I was selected for the part as my potential was louder than the resistance.
Ironically, being back to living with relatives longer than I had planned had become where I have been planted to grow, be challenged to reach, and develop!!!One year later, at age 29, I am still dancing and developing with my team at Love Life in every way. I now understand the love and support the universe has in store for me this time. It carries me while living out my fullest potential! Also, there are people who genuinely hold me accountable with the honesty and nurturing criticism needed.
I’ve danced quite a few collaborative solos. I even helped to choreograph a number as well. It seems that some callings somehow seem to call back when a time is more convenient. As for me, it’s a dial of grace called destiny.
Voting starts May 16, 2024 12:00am
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Write a poem about what you are grateful for in your life 1 month, 2 weeks ago
Very beautiful Rebecca! This is well written and heartfelt… I love how you used the dance and music analogies.
I must say those hurdles are certainly worth embracing, gaining a strength no one can take away from you as you arrive on the other side. 💜
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Why do you love yourself? 2 months ago
Hi Ash, I love this… the humor, gentleness and unique touches put into it… seems like it reflects the really dope individual that you are! Plus, I LOVE dancing lol it’s extremely joyful 😎
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Why do you love yourself? 2 months ago
Angela, I can definitely relate to this…especially this line: “having your voice silenced
By those who are in a position to lead you
That makes this love so hard sometimes.”
Thank you so much for sharing your truth, allowing your voice to be heard, and 💓 to be felt. -
Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Why do you love yourself? 2 months ago
Thank you so much. I really do appreciate that! 💓
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vbutler13 submitted a contest entry to
Why do you love yourself? 2 months agoA StOUNDING LUP-DUP
ValenciaFebruary 2, 2024
Self-Reflection
To be honest, I haven’t seen myself like this before… Embodying who I really am at core.
Valuing depth in connections… While being open for correction, my mind & heart is on one accord.
I am emotionally secured, more matured and all of that for sure.
Loving OUT LOUD, as my intentions are pure. “Lub- Dup” a sound that beats enough to end a war!
Feeling through moving waters, as it balances my reflection against the sun’s glow.
Unshakeable Ms. Mountain on a hill. Aware
that resting here is not always comfortable as I’d hope for.
Recently, I’ve discovered a string of things that tries to somehow still hold me back… so, I ask how deep does my layers lie? Is it really intact?
Home, going within the house to unpack…Alarming? I must have forgotten the code being too tough of a shell to crack. No one is perfect, I’m steadily learning to embrace that.
I was built from love, while ego tries to misplace it.
Splitting while the foundation crumbles, I had to see it through to heal and learn from my mistakes before molding something other.
I choose to look at the scars to face what I see within.
That’s both the beautiful and ugly which once knocked me down, just to get back up again because I love me. Acting with love. . . that takes courage!!! “Me-time” of self care to well nourish
I always state that “Love is maintenance” believing that I am more than worthy of it. The pain of discipline sometimes would take me under
From set backs, memories and dysfunction. Carrying me is the love that started from somewhere ethereal, way before my Grandmother’s comfort.
I rediscovered, no wonder who I am when I did encounter God! Open invitation, accepting the fact that I can love my self like this, without conceit… Really? Wow!!!
It’s still no excuse for me to be naïve while re-learning who I am, from whom I once known
myself to be… that’s something!
I am both Zen & Lit. Sharpened, yet humbled with a bit of bumble… I’m ready to rumble, if I am called to sting… solidly vibrates just as a bell rings
Gracefully open for arriving at my own timing. It’s so nice to finally be here!
The woman that the child within in me could not wait to meet. The poetic, romantic… the dancer who swiftly sways, right and left feet.
As we harmonize with love, I give thanks in advance while loving even more of the lady I am becoming…Continue on love because you’re on to something!
Best,
-Self
Voting is open!
Voting ends May 16, 2024 12:00am
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I love this! I bet that it would sound so good as a spoken piece
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Thank you so much. I really do appreciate that! 💓
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Valencia!!! This is so beautiful and extremely deep and thoughtful. There are many lines I just want to save and highlight. I am so glad you became the woman that the younger you always dreamed of becoming but I am not surprised. You truly are a beautiful human. Thank you for sharing and thank you for being part of The Unsealed family. <3 Lauren
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Thank you so much Lauren! I really do appreciate you 💜
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Valencia B shared a letter in the
Magical Moments group 4 months, 1 week agoLauren, Happy Birthday!
ValenciaLauren, I hope that this wish (prayer) finds you well… Happiest Birthday!!! May your day be filled with pure joy & warmth!
I am honored to celebrate this special day for the amazing impact that your light is contributing within this world, just by being YOU.
I am so blessed to have found this platform last year… it has truly helped revive a part of myself that the world needs to hear and for that I THANK YOU!!!
Btw, I loveee how compassionate and such a great effective listener/ communicator you are. That goes so unnoticed.All the best & Cheers to more life!!!
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic How are you changing the world? 4 months, 2 weeks ago
Wow, Gie… Thank you so so much!!! I am nearly at a loss for words on how timely your kind words are.
I truly needed this! I appreciate you, and receive your warmth & light. Much💞 -
Valencia B responded to a letter in topic How are you changing the world? 8 months, 3 weeks ago
Laurennn, thank you so much for your kindness. Always! It really does mean alot. Thank you for providing this safe space and platform for us to share with one another in this way. The Unsealed fam will forever have a place in my heart along this journey 😄❤
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vbutler13 submitted a contest entry to
How are you changing the world? 8 months, 3 weeks agoThe Appearance of The Inevitable's Impact
Valencia B.There is no doubt that one of my favorite motivational quotes is “Be the change that you wish you see.” Herstory told, they would like to repeat it…
Like how everyday I choose to defy the odds of struggle. Abundantly filled to navigate new heights… An unshakable force of humble.
Someday they’d say “Yeah, she did talk about making change…” but I hope that they actually can see it!!!
I’d love to tell them how I did it… and that everything in life is intentionally done for a reason. I let my guards down, enough standing on defense.
I challenged the flaws, to know whatever is underneath it. Impacting the masses is the goal that I’m reaching.
Bigger than me… My life is bigger than me!!!
I am devotedly aiming towards doing the best things. Learning that all of the better things in life are not free.
I am actively working my light within my art, family, and community.
I’ve sacrificed it all, but this mission to help others involved truly helping myself to start. It shows more than something when freedom calls!
I have all the answers that I need divinely a dial away. All I have to do is let them in and say “Thank you for leading the way!”
It’s important for the picture, pouring into myself. Mixed emotional colors create art that’s good for one’s health.
Developed within trusting the process… I had no clue I’d see it like this.
In order to get clearer, I push past the resistance.I am a leader! I choose to be the one to reach back to uplift & help other people out!!
As I reminisced about 5 cents ago, all of it did not add up… but, merely relying on money just was not enough.
I am purposeful.
I embrace this with gladness, that the shift that I vibrate while in this world is peace beyond the madness.
Voting is open!
Voting ends July 31, 2024 12:00am
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Valenica,You are a beautiful person. Your life is already so much bigger than you. Your compassion and spirit reverberate and impact many. Thank you for sharing your heart with us all. <3 Lauren
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Laurennn, thank you so much for your kindness. Always! It really does mean alot. Thank you for providing this safe space and platform for us to share with one another in this way. The Unsealed fam will forever have a place in my heart along this journey 😄❤
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Your impact is astonishing. To be able to realize both your strengths and weaknesses and use them to make a positive change is amazing. It is ultra important to pour into yourself, to make time for yourself and give yourself the grace need to be the ever change. A person of your magnitude Valencia are special. Thank you for sharing!!
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Wow, Gie… Thank you so so much!!! I am nearly at a loss for words on how timely your kind words are.
I truly needed this! I appreciate you, and receive your warmth & light. Much💞
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Write a letter to your future self 11 months, 2 weeks ago
Thank you so much Lauren for such kind words. I really do appreciate you! I am honored to be a part of our uplifting community of amazing people like yourself 💜
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vbutler13 submitted a contest entry to
Write a letter to your future self 1 year ago“Handled with Care, Nurtured by Love”
ValenciaDear thriving woman,
I am beyond grateful that this message has found you well!!! I knew deeply within my heart that one day you would get to read this. I would like to start off by saying THANK GOD for allowing you to still be here to experience the life that you have co-created for yourself. Valencia, I am so proud of you! How do those roses smell for you now that you finally get to accept them in full bloom? How does the fresh fruit taste from all of those seeds that you have planted?! Ha!
Undoubtedly, you have grown tremendously over these past years. After all of the adversity, triumph’s and dedication towards advancing along your path… you have come a long way. Who knew that after attempting suicide as a teen, being homeless on a few occasions (but further on learning that as long as you had family or friends to stay with, technically their home WAS your home as well), being unemployed (while still somehow being supported), and overcoming depression that it would all lead to these situations helping to shape you into the woman that I am reading this today… I’ll tell you who… You did! “God did!!!” (As the saying goes).
As you know, God did not give you anything that you could not handle. You are so very brave to press forward, bettering your circumstances. That was only just part of the fuel that has driven you to reach your fullest potential. Even as a young girl you have always felt that there was much more to life than what was being presented within your surroundings. You are one of your inner child’s biggest dreams come true! It is a blessing to have truly rediscovered your authentic self and boldly walking in that light. I thank you for making peace with your past and choosing to live without any regrets.
Look at all that you have accomplished!!! Although your upbringing has had its waves of dysfunction and unhealthy patterns that you’ve had to unlearn, you have still managed to create a beautiful family unit of your own. I recall your desire for you all to hold a healthy, supportive and nurturing connection… That part was extremely important because you knew that it was possible for you to experience! Plus, you get to do meaningful/ purposeful work as a multi-talented creative, advocate for holistic health, healing tools/services, philanthropist and motivational speaker…landing a few of your very own major events alongside your amazing team. Another thing to mention is to have traveled around the world and connected with God’s blessings in various forms (culture, land, food, etc.) It is a blessing to experience having a positively abundant life doing all the things that lights you up, it helps to light the world up!
The positive impact that you are making all over the world is beyond remarkable. It only took you one leap and many brave steps for you to know and trust that the divine was (and still very much is) backing you EVERY STEP of the way. Sheesh… girl you knew that the universe was gonna bless you with far more than you could have even imagined, so don’t act surprised!!! You are whole, healthy, successful, loving/loved unconditionally, a leader, creative, a healer, a woman of divine faith, a loving wife, mother, and mentor. All while being genuinely joyfull while being so, I may add. This is exactly what it means to embrace the journey and trusting the process towards reaching the destination.
My humble words of encouragement going forward: Never stop dreaming, (those dreams are your heart’s desires in rare form, only because it’s up to YOU to truly see them) aim high!!! Your potential is still very much unlimited. I love you!!!
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Valencia, I so agree with you. You are so brave for pressing though despite your circumstances.The fact that you are able to create a loving beautiful family connection despite maybe not fully getting that yourself as a child speak to your strength and power. You have a loving beautiful soul and you continue to nurture all that you are and all…read more
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Thank you so much Lauren for such kind words. I really do appreciate you! I am honored to be a part of our uplifting community of amazing people like yourself 💜
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Write a poem or a letter to yourself about your goals for the new year 1 year, 1 month ago
Yessss!!! Thank you Kayjah, absolutely right on point with that. It makes a great difference in how we can better show up and receive even more of those blessings in advance. I appreciate your comment 💜
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Valencia B responded to a letter in topic Write a poem or a letter to yourself about your goals for the new year 1 year, 1 month ago
Lauren, thank you so much for your kind words. 💜 It feels amazing to finally share my journey with others! Thank you for this amazing platform!!!
I am honored and so excited for what is in store with all of us coming together here !!!
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vbutler13 submitted a contest entry to
Write a poem or a letter to yourself about your goals for the new year 1 year, 1 month agoAligned by Seven:2023
Valencia“New year, new me… new goals set for 2023!” The 1st goal is checked by the fact that I have enough air within my lungs to breathe.
I am here! I make peace with the fact that 2023 is already looking up for me.
I’ve already had my vision board mapped out and told myself that “all of 2023, i’m gonna live comfortably.” I deserve it!
New goals set for 2023 and they all align with my purpose.
Did so much healing over the past few years that I’ve laid a solid foundation that’s much deeper than what lies beneath the surface.
The shedding of my tears, old habits, and fears has allowed me to align with a laser sharp focus
as it reveals all of my inner truths… I confidently speak up for those who feel hopeless.
Although, prior to now it felt like no one else could even hear me. Maybe because I didn’t fully yet hear myself… so to speak.
New goals set for 2023, I am a leader amongst my own destiny…
Mastering all that I continuously co-create. Learning more about holistic medicines to heal my ancestral lineage for goodness sake!
I’ll continue meditating and going within…
and promise to myself to continue flowing… not only just with the pen.
Faith and alignment is all that I’ll really needbecause for the new goals set… the divine will make sure that I’ll continue having everything that I could ever desire, want, and need!
Living fully within each moment, I’ll approach each day gratefully.
I will continue to prioritize peace and balance. Allowing myself to grow and expand from more of life’s daily lessons.
Heavy, yet gentle on the self-care towards showing up as the highest version of myself.
Having no specific expectations… by letting it all unfold for me naturally. Praying that everything turns out even better than I could imagine it to be!
I set out to intentionally pour into my passions of inspiring others, creating, writing and dancing joyfully.
Also, remind myself to playfully explore many new exciting festivities. I’ll indulge in the various wonders of very tasteful vegan recipes.
Counting my blessings as I know that not everything in life is guaranteed.
I value to equally nurture and grow along with my loved ones. I am also open to new, yet healthy/ lasting connections because I’ve detached from most of the old ones.
Love (unconditionally), soft yet bitterly sweet, that’s the fluent language that I sacredly speak.
Claiming it all! Signed “Aligned by Seven: 2023”
Hold up! Just one last thing…
I promise myself to maximize my unlimited potential… So, here it is. 2023, the journey begins!
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Valencia – This is fantastic. You are definitely a strong person. This line is so real and so relatable, “Although, prior to now it felt like no one else could even hear me. Maybe because I didn’t fully yet hear myself… so to speak.”
We definitely hear you and I know you now hear yourself. Go be the highest version of yourself. You are ins…read more
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Lauren, thank you so much for your kind words. 💜 It feels amazing to finally share my journey with others! Thank you for this amazing platform!!!
I am honored and so excited for what is in store with all of us coming together here !!!
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I am very excited as well. And I can’t wait to meet you on one of our Unsealed Conversations shows. I hope you have a wonderful weekend. <3 Lauren
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Valencia my favorite line is where you said “Living fully within each moment, I’ll approach each day gratefully.” Sometimes we don’t take the time to be grateful for the things we already have even for our bodies. Whether we are grateful to have food on our table breathe air or so on and so forth. Even though we have plans for the future we stil…read more
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Yessss!!! Thank you Kayjah, absolutely right on point with that. It makes a great difference in how we can better show up and receive even more of those blessings in advance. I appreciate your comment 💜
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