As I noticed March coming to an end, which makes me aware that women’s month awareness closing it curtains for next year. It makes me wonder why does it have to be a month to honor women for what we’ve been through? Why can’t it just be everyday, just acknowledging our accomplishments and hardships. Of course, it can be too much…read more
There is a grieving process that comes with healing that isn’t often talked about, but I think it should be. Coming to a place where you can see yourself without judgement, even if it is for a fleeting moment, is something magical; but stepping into that space when you never thought you’d get there is an entirely different experience. Although I a…read more
Been on this battlefield for as long as I can remember,
Hits hard the more I fight to forget the thunder.
It ruptures my thoughts and every vital sign I have left,
Old feelings resurface like being a victim of theft.
Collecting all the answers I’ve been looking for,
Only to find myself begging for more.
I try to muster up the energy to w…read more
I have stood in front of the mirror to gaze upon my reflection; a taunting voice has probed at my mind to tilt towards a criticizing approach about myself. My body posture deflated when my critical thinking unbuttoned the layers that had camouflaged my insecurities. I wanted to smash the mirror, I just couldn’t take how my r…read more
C.S. Lewis wrote “to love at all is to be vulnerable. Love anything and your heart will be wrung and possibly broken.” When I think about the question what makes me strong it is the ability to be vulnerable yourself and others even when your heart has been broken. To choose to be seen and known, even when it is hard. As I look at my…read more
You, me, and everyone in this world face difficult and uncomfortable situations again and again throughout our lives and for some of us, those difficult situations make us stronger day by day. We all must finish our race no matter what because we already have started the journey.
My life was not a fairy-tale. I’ve been pulling myself out of d…read more
Dear Unsealed Community,
When I was in my first semester of college at C. W. Post I was very unhappy. I had never been away from home for any length of time or away from my parents. I was also a very sheltered 18 year old so I was a bit unprepared for the typical college bad behavior that goes on. Adding to this, I did not get along…read more
Almost six years ago, I graduated from Youngstown State University with honors and a Bachelor’s Degree of Journalism. I majored in Journalism, but I always tell people that I had a double-minor at YSU. I technically minored in Communication, but I had another minor: Determination.
Being on the autism spectrum, I attended job counseling. Every…read more
Drew, I absolutely love this. You are INCREDIBLE. I think you should connect with fellow member @jsapril He has CP and he is going through the process of trying to get a job. <3 Lauren
Is he currently going through job counseling? What was his major in college? What is he passionate about? What would he like to pursue for his livelihood? I wish him nothing but success.
Drew, your story about your “hat in the ring” is truly inspiration! Thank you for always being in my corner! I was inspired by your risk and I am taking my own!
As they say, “Now I have to execute the game plan!!
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Many moons ago, I used to have this pesky little habit of twirling my hair. I would twirl my hair when I was happy, I would twirl my hair when I was sad, twirl my hair belly laughing, even twirled my hair watching whatever Halloween movie in utter suspense.
Twirling my hair was my jam.
As the moons turned to crescents and faint owl shapes, I…read more
For a long time, you felt that out of all the attributes you had, being strong wasn’t a part of that list.
You saw other people as being strong like actors who played strong characters in movies, musical artists who looked like they had overwhelming strength in their image, or just family members and kids you knew who seemed like…read more
Dear Mrs. Shuster:
Even though it’s been close to 13 years since I left the halls of Lakeview High School, but you are still my favorite teacher of all-time in my academic career. When I was just eight years old, you introduced me to The Rich Center at Youngstown State.
When I was 10, I was moved to your classroom and enjoyed every minute of it.…read more
Growing up, I didn’t always appreciate you as I do now. I didn’t fully understand you as a child because our dreams were so different. At ten years old, I was outspoken and already very career driven. You always liked working and wanted to do well, but you never had a burning desire for a promotion or more responsibilities. For a lon…read more
@shelleybrill I wrote this for you. I love you so much and I hope you know how much I appreciate you (even though you get on my nerves sometimes). Love you!
I am so happy to be here writing this to you today, as I know you need to hear this. I can see you struggling as you slowly shed your past self away. I know how painful it can be when you realize all of the time you spent worrying about everything beyond your control, and sometimes it even feels like you’re grieving the loss of your own life. I j…read more
My goals for this year is to be more focused on my dreams. I spent so many years of my life in fear of what people would think about me and the things I did. I didn’t even realize that I wanted their validation.
I always knew I had something in me, always being aware of my gifts. But the environment in which I was in wasn’t favorable to my gro…read more
Naomi, I think at some point in our lives we all look for validation from other people. But the only validation we really ever need is from ourselves. Keep being you! Follow your dreams, write and travel. Keep falling in love with you because YOU are amazing ! <3 Lauren
Naomi, You go for living out your dreams and never listen to anyone else. Yes, you’ve lived your life in fear for a few years but from that fear, you’ve learned to grow and chase your dream by not caring about what others say. One thing is that they may say things but with your motivation, they can’t stop you.
It’s funny when I write to someone who happens to be myself in the distant future. I try to look forward to the future, instead of time-traveling to the past, which I happen to do a lot since the past is a part of the key ingredients that makes up myself. However, as you know, I have made my list that you already know I…read more
Danni! You’re amazing! All your dreams are going to come true! Congratulations on all that you’ve accomplished. This is just the beginning. Go to your new school and have the best time of your life. Don’t worry about money too much. We all worry about money and throughout life it will come and it will go. Just do your best to be responsible. As…read more
Crazy midterms, finally had some time to read and look. Thank you so much for your words, I really appreciate it!
You’re right money comes and goes. Growing up, money was a constant thing, so sometimes I have trouble turning it off. I really like your suggestions with the anxiety. I’ve been rollerblading a few times, I’ll just say I…read more
Danni! Every letter you write is just so amazing! I’m glad that you were able to accomplish so many things and not let (GAD) get in the way of that! That can be a barrier for a lot of people but not for you because you have such a strong and passionate mindset to fight and not let anything or anyone get in your way. Keep living the life you want.
I’ve noticed a lot your wonderful comments on my past posts. Already, just thank you for that, I appreciate it much. Yes, my GAD is a part of me, but I’ve learned that it’s not me and not my identity. Just a part of me, but dosen’t revolve around me. Once I got out of that mindset, it has helped me tremendously! Thank you, yep, I’m let…read more
I want you to breathe easier
To not critique yourself and art into artistic paralysis
Do not question your Intuition
I will let you make mistakes
Only if you can learn from them
I will not beat you up for being human
I will give you the grace I allow others
I am now able to love you as you need to be loved.
And that love will grow with each…read more
Sarah, this is so good. You give so much love and kindness to others. I hope and pray every day you give that same love and kindness to yourself. You are wonderful and amazing and I hope you are as proud of yourself as I am of you. Thank you for sharing. I hope your year is going even better than planned. Thank you for sharing your heart with the…read more
It’s always good to give ourselves grace because sometimes we tend to be a little too hard on ourselves we have to understand that sometimes we don’t have the ability to do everything we want to do our way. We sometimes have to understand that we are not perfect. I love that you said that you will rage against the dying light showing that no…read more
Sarah giving ourselves grace is important, especially living in a society where there aren’t many people that will give you grace. Accepting grace for yourself is important, but also accepting grace for others is even more important. We need to remind ourselves that grace is there for us. We have the power to have grace in moments where we feel l…read more
2023
You stuck up on us
Like deer in the night
I had heard of your coming
But still wasn’t prepared for your arrival
At the same time,
I’m excited you’ll be at my door soon
There’s so much I want to tell you
Hopefully, you won’t be overwhelmed
by my words
I want to tell you
That I want to finish my book
Travel to other places
Continue to work on…read more
Gerald!!! I didn’t know you were writing a book! That’s amazing. I can’t wait to read it and I can’t wait for other people to see your beautiful heart. You are such a good soul and I am so glad you are part of The Unsealed family and our paths crossed. Thank you for being you. <3 Lauren
Lauren!!! Yep. Haha. I need to start working on it again. I can’t wait to finish it and am thrilled for you and others to read it. I appreciate your kind words very much, Lauren. I’m glad our paths crossed too and to be a part of The Unsealed. Thank you for your light. 🙂 Gerald
Gerald!!! I absolutely can’t wait to read it. Let me know when you do it. We can promote it on the site and on our social media. You are amazing. Grateful for your friendship. <3 Lauren
Will do! I’ll let you know when I finish. That sounds exciting! Thank you, Lauren. I’m grateful as well. I still can’t believe we’ve crossed paths sometimes, but I’m glad it happened. <3 Gerald
Gerald, I’m glad that this year is a happy look for you. I’m sure you will be able to travel more, write more, build relationships, and finish your book. You are so passionate about writing I can’t see you not doing it. You got this! Keep fighting!
Thank you, Kayjah for your touching words! Keep fighting and striving I shall. I hope 2023 is going well for you so far and that good things have come true for you.